Originally Posted by outsider:
So myself and my child should support drug addicts, recovering drug addicts, rule breakers, and law breakers because they have all of a sudden had a "change of heart"?
It's people like you and other coddlers that show just how bad this world is screwed up. Reward those who ruin their lives.
As to JstAbvVMC, the comment about me being "job security" for you is actually kind of funny. How is my comment of not supporting this "person" and failing as a parent for raising a child that idolizes a drug addict giving you "job security"?
You can support whoever you want. If you are jealous of the opportunities afforded to someone and covering it up with frustration, please don't teach your child this behaviour.
I don't see how he was coddled, in the end he did lose his career. This world is screwed up because a lot of people don't teach their kids what to do if they make mistakes, and thats because no one taught them. So you think the parent of every drug addict has failed, and those kids should be forever banned from society? It seems to me he is a responsible productive member of society.
I don't expect you to "get it", but I hope someone who reads these posts learns that they can change, or learns they can forgive someone. Some of us know that that is what's great about this world. Job Security would be because as long as there is parents believing their kids won't do drugs, they are going to be ignorant of the facts. If you think anyone who unfortunately starts to do drugs in their early teens, perfects hiding and lying, only learns this behaviour from their friends, has no support from their family, or a family who enables this behaviour (through there own intolerance or lack of education), should be jailed for life. Everyone's life is different, if you think your's it perfect, keep on pretending...
What you are correct about is that many addicts don't have the knowledge to get recovery, can't see the world any differently and that a great many do not stay clean. Many go on to prison, leach off society or die from drug addiction. So if you think the one person you see/read/hear about that is clean, should be banished from the earth, then go on and think that.
Just know that most of us who are for Shane, remain calm when typing on this forum. You seem to be as well. Don't let someone else's life situation affect your own life in a negative way. When it comes to your child this is an opportunity to teach them about what drugs can do to your life, what that child can do if they end up using drugs. Please don't live in the fantasy world of believing that your kid won't do drugs. Sure it's a mistake, but by no means should they be shunned from society if they can turn their life around.