Gregg, I am typing this with tears in my eyes. It brought back memories from losing my mother to Lung Cancer. She too was quite the fighter and quite big on a sense of humor. After she was diagnosed she went home and even wrote her own obituary so she could have the last word. I wish I would have thought about getting on her and writting about her when we lost her, it would have helped me some I think. We will be praying for you and for your family. Hang in there, that first Mother's Day is very hard I am now on my 2nd one. It does get easier, but you have many wonderful memories. I had a pastor say one time don't despise the hurt, it means that you have a wonderful person to remember. If they had not been so wonderful it would not hurt.