Ok, I've spent this time talking up Elmers, I felt that I'd better let you all in on the BEST BBQ I have EVER had. Unfortunatly, it is 90 miles to the NW of Tulsa in Ponca City, OK.
I worked in the music biz for 17 years (sound engineer). During that time, I did sound for a private birthday party for a very wealthy family. A company named Head Country BBQ
http://www.headcountry.com/ catered it. I have been hooked ever since. Their BBQ is unbelievable, their list of championships, including a WORLD championship is testament. Even if you can't make it up there, do yourself a favor and stop in to most any Oklahoma grocery store and pick up some of their BBQ Sauce. It's the only sauce I will ever use and order it by the gallon off their webpage!