Throttlehead....No one knows what you are going through like someone else that has gone through the pain. I, too, found a stronger faith after a divorce. The Lord has gotten me through lots of pain and during my divorce I joined a Divorce Recovery Group through my church. It was the best thing I have ever done, and believe me it is what made me realize that you can only change yourself, not the other person. I have gone on with my life and am a very successful, happy single lady. It doesn't seem like it at the time, but life can be even better.